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Midnight Ramblings of a Lady in Love

My heart is bursting at the seams. So full of joy its hardly containable. It radiates through me... the smile on my face, the light in my eyes, the laughter in my voice, the calm in my soul. You captivate me. Motivate me. Inspire me. My insecurities are laid to rest, and doubt dissipates with… Continue reading Midnight Ramblings of a Lady in Love

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One Flawsome Momma: 11 Post Separation Dating Tips

Six weeks after my separation I created a dating profile on Plenty of Fish.  I mean, damn, if he could do it while we were married then I could do it after the split, right?  I went on my first date and we immediately hit it off.  This man was handsome, charming, and funny.  We very… Continue reading One Flawsome Momma: 11 Post Separation Dating Tips

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One Flawsome Momma: “I Wonder Why Daddy Picked Her Over You.”

I was sitting in a fast food restaurant, having lunch with my daughter after a day of shopping, when my then 7 year old nonchalantly asked, "I wonder why daddy picked her over you?" In a split second my chest tightened and I fought to hide back the tears.  My head fogged up and I… Continue reading One Flawsome Momma: “I Wonder Why Daddy Picked Her Over You.”

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One Flawsome Momma: Single Mom Army

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTTNWpag6fI "When I'm with you, I'm standing with an army." Ellie Goulding The first time I heard this song was at a live concert.  I was on a date, but in that moment I was immersed in so much love and gratitude for my dearest family and friends.  My people.  My army. Finding your Single Mom… Continue reading One Flawsome Momma: Single Mom Army

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One Flawsome Momma: Identity Crisis

After my separation, I realized that I had alienated myself from relationships FOR me.  I also realized that I alienated myself from experiences FOR me.  If I wanted to go somewhere or do something and it wasn't kosher to HIM, then I didn't do it.  I felt like as a family unit we had to do… Continue reading One Flawsome Momma: Identity Crisis

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One Flawsome Momma: Giggles and Gossip

I'll be honest.  I'm terrible at hosting sleepovers for my daughter.  "We'll get them together next weekend.  Wait, she's at her dad's next weekend, how about the weekend after?"  Scheduling it is the hardest part. Then: who picks them up, who drops them off, should I clean the house first even though I know it'll… Continue reading One Flawsome Momma: Giggles and Gossip

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Divorce: From Fear to Inspiration

Inspired.  It's been a long time since I truly felt it to my core.  Waking up with purpose.  Killing it during the day.  Staying up late to complete a project, or research, or write verses staying up late ridden with anxiety and depression and fear.  Today, I felt it.  Truly.  Inspired by my work.  Inspired… Continue reading Divorce: From Fear to Inspiration